My Approach

Where Science meets soul, and strategy meets self-inquiry

This work is both structured and soulful. It draws from evidence-based methods and deep psychological traditions but it always comes back to one question:

Are you willing to see yourself, and relate from that place of truth?

I integrate several therapeutic frameworks in a way that’s customized, intuitive, and relationally attuned:

Relational Repair Through Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

I use EFT to help couples and individuals understand the attachment wounds beneath their conflicts. This method helps uncover the longing beneath the criticism and supports people in creating safer emotional bonds through vulnerability, not control.

Practical Tools from the Gottman Method

Research-backed strategies meet relational wisdom here. From conflict de-escalation to rebuilding trust, I use Gottman-informed tools to help couples communicate with clarity, respect, and emotional presence not just rehearse the same fights with new vocabulary.

Shadow Integration through Jungian Psychology

Many of our deepest patterns are unconscious. I draw from Jungian principles to help clients explore their “shadow”: the disowned parts of self that often drive behavior from underneath. This includes dreamwork, symbol interpretation, and embracing the psyche’s language of metaphor.

Systems Thinking for Personal and Relational Change

No one grows in isolation.
Whether in couples or individual work, I use Systems Theory to help clients see how they are part of a larger pattern and how changing their own behavior can begin shifting the whole.

Emotional Intelligence as Compass and Mirror

Emotions are not irrational: they’re information.
Using EQ assessments and tools, I help clients identify their emotional blind spots and build capacity in areas like empathy, regulation, boundary-setting, and assertiveness. This creates relational maturity, not just insight.

Spiritual Grounding and Energetic Integrity

I believe in sacred space. In every session, I hold a field that honors not just the mind and emotions, but also the soul’s clarity and the body’s wisdom. I bring presence, intuitive reflection, and energetic discernment to guide the process without ever overriding your sovereignty.

This is not a place to be rescued.

It’s a place to be reflected, respected, and radically honest so that real, lasting transformation can occur.

What Roberta’s Clients Say

“It is with appreciation and gratitude that I want to thank you! Your generosity and skillful help put me on the road to self-discovery.”

-D

“I met you during a difficult moment in my life and you helped give me perspective, open my horizons and give me a better sense of the issues that arose. I’m a different person now and feel freer, more self-reliant, closer to my family and my wife and more in tune with my surroundings.”

-D

“Your caring, love and concern have really meant a lot over the last couple years. Your professional abilities really helped me to get started working through my stuff. You’ve been my “rock” in a very difficult time in my life.”

-S

“I want to thank you for being the caring human being that you are and I feel you are truly gifted as a healer. I would highly recommend anyone to talk to you in a time of need or simply for reassurance to see life’s possibilities.”

-J

“Thank you for your continued support and guidance. I am proud of my progress and feel blessed to have found you.”

-A

“So happy you are a part of our lives. We are blessed. Thank you.”

-L & J

“Thank you so much for walking with me during that rugged passage. I am processing all my inner stuff. I love you and am grateful to you.”

-K

“You, BY FAR, are the best therapist I have ever talked to. I am lucky to have found you. I always, always think of our conversations. Roberta, you are an excellent teacher and someone to look up to.”

-AS